It takes a digital signal to drive a laptop display, your analogue one isn't going to work. You may be able to use a DVI (pin out here: http://www.nti1.com/technote.html#dvi
It seems to me that EVERY LCD display has a different pin out, maybe an E-Mail to the folks that made yours will give a good result, who knows?
ok, i e-mailed the people at http://www.digitalview.com a few days ago, but still have recieved no reply. by looking at this site and clicking on the controller solution generator, is this saying by ordering one of their controller boards(and whatever accesories needed), i will be able to attatch it to a laptop lcd/tft, then be able to display from my desktop graphics card, onto the lcd? thanks in advance for any help!